I just got back from a far cousin's funeral. He's just 23, married to a young girl. I could not stand to see the look on her face. She wept and wept and wept over the body of her beloved. I imagined myself in her place. But only God knows how much hurt she would feel. They must have had so many plans for the future; must have talked about how many kids they want; or who they would look like. All their dreams, their fantasies, gone.. just like that. How unpredictable our future is! But on the brighter side (which isn't so bright), maybe she should be thankful that they had at least few wonderful years together, as a family...
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which got me thinking... "Why do people wait for the right time to get married?" I have few close friends having years of relationship. And I keep telling them, "If your'e so sure that you love him/her and your'e financially stable, get married! Why wait?". Coz I feel that when things get prolonged, people change in the course of time; sometimes in a good way and sometimes bad. And I've seen few people lost love because they waited too long. "If tomorrow never comes" by Ronan Keating suits such situations. Marriage is a risk anyway right? So, my very dear friends (you know who you are), please please get married soon! I wanna be the flower girl (lolz). Oh yeah, you may be wondering "What about you?". Well, as for me, I need to stand on my own feet first, coz I believe that a girl should be independent, and be able to stand up for her man :-). I've met this really wonderful guy and he has brought sunshine to my life. I don't know what the future has in store for us, all I know is that I don't want to lose him. But am keeping everything in the hands of the Lord. Ok. End of discussion. *grin*
Here's a song I want all lovers in the world to listen. An OST from the movie "Fireproof", a must watch Christian Movie, especially for married couples going through tough times.
"Love is not a fight, but its something worth fighting for"
And... work... has been very hectic lately. I aint complaining as far as lab work is concerned. I actually love doing it, coz it's something practical. What I hate is the observation part, where I have to write down what changes took place in how many days... arrggh.. Boring! I'm not much of a reader either. I envy people taking interests in reading. I haven't even read one novel. Newspapers, Chicken soup for the soul and my books (during exams) are the few things I could manage to read. And of course, Blogs, coz they are short :-). Ok.. enough of blabbering. And so this is why I haven't been updating my blog lately. I've been super busy (hehe). And I can't believe it has already been a year since I started blogging. So, Happy 1st birthday to Claire. Ciao people!
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Claire, happy birthday :)
Incident te chu ava hreawm duhawm e. Ka thianpa pawh hian a ngaihzawng neih vawikhatna leh a hnu a a nupui ni ta a nei a.Engineer a zir a, thisen cancer a nei ta tlat a. A zawh hnu in hna a thawk tan ve ta a. Tichuan, a thiannu chuan anatna hrerengin a nei ta tho a. Reilote an in nei a thihsan ta a. An chanchin ka ngaihtuah hian mi thatak ve ve an ni a, an in duhthiam em em a, an hlimlainite chu a rei chuang vak silo a. Thenkhat innei ve tho hi ka hre teuh a an inhaureng a, an intlansan a...an dam ve reng tho bawk a. Hmalam hun hi kan sawitheilo khawp mai. Engkim hi Pathian kutah a ni e...
"Every man's ready for marriagewhen the right girl comes along."
"When a man and a woman see each other and like each other,
they ought to come together, wham,
like a couple of taxis on Broadway
and not sit around analysing each other like two specimens in a bottle."
- Stella
Rear Window 1954
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0047396/
Dik chiah, why don't 'they' just get married? me too, i want to be financially independent before i take the plunge.. i declare this year as 'getting a steady job' year so that by next year... :D
And a happy birthday to Claire... what's really kept you busy, though, is a certain eee'oooo....
Why married? Why ruin your Bachelor life? Hook up with every girl you found in the club. Fertilize your sperm to every girl you met in the party. One day kids will come a long in every street you walk and call you Daddy, you might as well get a tittle 'Father of a nation' Remember Marriage is not a word.
I reh rei kalo ti a,agenda i lo ngah tak em anih khi.Nula fel tak zawng i ni chawk ang,rawn ziakzel la, kan lo komen zel ang.
ehermmm.. so, you decided to get married at last lolzzz...
Happy Bday to claire.. ngaihtuah lem loh lai hian hun hi a lo kal zung zung mai.
Heyy!! Iva phakar ve a, pasal neih ve i chakna tawh vang anih kha a zahthlak loh!!heee...just kiddin.. Yeah i quest your right and i'll start to look for someone from today onwards..hee
Good to see you back in action after a long time. So I guess the next post will be all about wedding bells?
And here's wishing a happy birthday to Claire.
Zualtea post ka hmuh khan i birthday maw ka tia. Chuan i sap hming hi Claire a ni maw ka ti bawk a. Mahse a ni lo.
'pawh nupui neih chu ka duh tawh thova mahse keini ang hi chu tuman mni duh tak tak lo nih hi :( (runs away crying...)
hmmm love, now that i can comment but as far as marriage is concerned........the topic still scares me. like you i have just met this amazing amazing being who has been a breath of fresh air....every day with her is like a journey into the unknown, how exciting :) but unlike you i'm still unsure about my feelings...anyway tough one to comment so i'll end by saying "a happy happy birthday to claire"
@codeAries: Thank you :-)
@sawmpuia: I thianpa chu a khawngaihthlak ngei mai. An nu pawh chu a ngaihsanawm hle mai.. ka hla rawn dah ah hian a hla thu hi lo bih chiang rawh. Nupa inhau pawn an sim vang vang phah ka ring, a movie ka sawi phei hi chu mi zawng zawng hian en se ka ti, tunlai chu Zonet ah an rawn playback thin a. En fuh ka in ti teh mai ania. Ni e, engkim hi Pathian kuta dah hi a tha ber.. ka blog i lo tlawh a ka lawm lutuk e.
@ben rtz: howdy!! i va vang ve..
I say "every girl is ready when the right man comes along" :P
@ku2: nangmahni hi ka sawi chhan deuh pakhat in niaaa.. hehe. Ti vat vat teh uuuuu.. kukui hi hna lo pe vat vat teh uuuuu... lolz
@Alejendro: Hmm.. I'm sure you don't mean that. Marraige is sacred, and I think every one should respect that.. well, for one who can't stay committed better not get married IMHO
@dr_feelgood: I ti lawmawm thin mange.. ka fel em em phei chu ka hre law... :-)
@Varte: lolzzz.. not yet, I have to stand on my own feet :D Nia, rin ai takin hun hi a lo kal chak.. Pathian zara kan dam hi chuan..
@Aduhi: Update hi chu ka duh ve thei lutuk.. mahse buai vang leh, rilru dry lai deuh hi a awm.. In ni ve thin em chu ka hre chuang lova..
@Mos-a: over em mai aw.. tinge a hrim2 ah comment te i chhiar hmasak? Thatchhe lutuk mai.. PH.D nula in a neih duh reng che khaaa... :-)
@iceman: Thank you pal.. Like I've told you, give it time.. don't rush things ;-)
@Jesse Saiawi: Ka thiante ho hi alawm, an in zui rei tawh sia, inneih mai hi an tum hlawm lo a.. Ka lo hmanhmawh pui ve ringot. hehe.. Tha deuh I zawn hmuh ngei ka beisei :-)
A zahthlak loh an sawi alawm, palai lo tir rawh ati ati tawh anti che ania..huhui..tlangval hi a nuam alawm leee,nangpawh nulat ila kham loh em kha... tak2 in i thil rawn ziah hi mahni han in chan chuan a rilru nat thlak duh khawp ang..
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