claire

a disclosure

Written by : Robert Charles Guidry (Bobby Charles) in 1977

Made famous by : Rita Coolidge




This was one of the first song that I ever liked, even before knowing what it meant. My cousin’s used to sing it so many times that the tune’s embedded in my brain! And after I came to know that it was Rita Coolidge who sang this, seems she also sang ‘words’, ‘I don’t want to talk about it’, 'we've got tonight', 'crazy love', which are also my all time fav songs. I've actually just downloaded these (rita's version).. lurve 'em!!

Lyrics of The jealous kind
Dont be angry, if i seem rude
Each time we meet
Someone that you once knew
That you say used to be so close to you
It's just that I'm so afraid
Someone might steal you away
I'd lose my mind
I can't help myself, the way I feel sometimes
I'm a jealous kind

It was alright when I first met you
I didn't mind
But now things have changed
I'm just not the same and now I find
I want you all to myself
I don't want to share you with nobody else
You must forgive me, for the way I act sometimes
I'm a jealous kind

If you only knew how much it hurts to hear you say
How you can't forget
That before we met, those were the good old days
Why must you hurt me so
I can't take it no more
And I'm really tryin'
And I can't help myself, the way I act sometimes
I'm a jealous kind

I found this cover in youtube, I totally like the way he sings it, a little John Mayer but country..


Have you ever been in love?
Yes?
No?
Not sure?
Don’t know?

Think about this song, I’m sure in every relationship we all feel this way. You start a relationship, you become close, you share your feelings, and then start to talk about your past relationships. Yeah, in the beginning it seems quite alright, like everything’s cool. And then this stupid feeling called “J” comes along, which makes most of us go weak on the knees! Do you ever get that “I wanna know 'bout your past, but I don’t wanna know” feeling? Aarrghh.. I hate this feeling! And this is why I sometimes think its better not to know everything, leave it behind, stay true to each other and live the moment. Sometimes you're so sure that you're in love, but then again you doubt yourself. Coz the good Book tells us that “Love is not jealous”.

Now tell me again, Have You ever been in love? :-)

23 comments:

Love this song!!!!
The song I listened to almost every morning when i was 4-5 yrs old.. was
Suzanne Vega: My name is Luka... And here goes my version:
my name is nuka,
i lif on zesemom for
i lif upthair from you
thnik usema before....

hahaha....

The guy must be really jealous - he didn't show his face during the whole song. Lovely song, loved it 15 years ago, it's still beautiful even now. And you wanna know the weirdest thing? A friend of mine recently posted the Rita Coolidge video on Facebook, and here you are now... this song keeps popping up everywhere I go.

Most of the sad county love songs i grew up with are all here ! http://www.grantandforsyth.com/discography.htm

I always wanted to be a cowboy lol i still do !

Thanks guys, for your comments, but there was an error before, and some of you could not view this post through Internet Explorer, so i had to remove the youtube link i posted.
@Codearies: I OWE YOU :-) Thanks so much!

again thanks to codearies: youtube has also been attached..haha

Its Ok daaa :) Welkham

hmm you seem to be an abnormally, disturbed emotional child me dear
:( hahaha just kiddin.
on a more serious note yes dear we all go through that phase while in a relationship and sometimes even when out of it..it hurts just as hell when your ex is into another relationship...you think you've gotten over her/him but when you see her/him with another....holding hands together,their heads tilted againgt each other, whispering to each other, giggling....aaaa it drived me crazy and it hurts as hell.
even while in a relationship the green demon rears its ugly head. the song writer's right...i did wanna know about her past, i wanted to know if she was happier with him,did he make her laugh more,was he a better shoulder to cry on...above all did she still love him. i know it's damaging and i should have been wise enough to let bygones be bygones and love her for her...but as always i had to be "the jealous kind" nevertheless. Cheers!!

tha khop mai... ril bok si. dik bok si. hehe

If i may quote from my fav show The Big Bang theory
Sheldon (a scientist, absolute geek) : When a female witnesses an exhibition of physical domination she produces the hormone oxytocin. If the two of you then engage in intercourse, this will create the biochemical reaction in the brain which lay people naively interpret as "Falling in Love".

Why suddenly about love and jealousy and star and mushyness etc these days?

Errrrmmmm.....

:-)

Ps. Theme thar chu error a la awm nual :)

@Rita: Nuka, now you can view the sentimental part :-)
@aduhi: it is a meaningful song
@Anonymous: When are you going to show yourself?? :-)

@ice-man: i didnt know that guy's also feel that way! But you know what they say, that if you really love someone, then u'll want what's best for them, and u'll be happy to see them happy. Elton john's "Sacrifice" :)
@tetea: thanks for dropping by, really appreciate it!

@OpaHmar: the first scientific definition of love i've ever heard.
does the male also produce the oxytocin? :-) or its just the female, and male has to be phhysically phhit? (madagascar)
@illusionaire: coz its boring without crushes and love.hehe
am still working on the theme..

Songfact.com saw nitin chhiar rawh, i tuihnang reuh em mai :D

Sorry, its songfacts.com

@codeAries, ive checked it out. Its cool, but i still cannot find the meaning of the song "Through her eyes" by dream theatre. Is it about his late wife or ex- gf or....?

The guy version must be 'Jealous Guy" by John Lennon. Heard it? One of my all time favs,which I sing a lot, whistling part n all.

@dr_feelgood: thanks, i thought i didnt know the song, but i watched it in youtube, and i realised its just the title that i was not familiar with :) a nalh reuh khop mai

oie, Mizo Blog Directory ka update mek a nia, rawn in register vat rawh, sis.

okay... Since I could see only the song before and had not read the whole thing... I put my comment again..
Yes, have been in love. . Love also come with deep understanding... Its true nobody wants to dig up the past.Sad but true.. the past comes back to haunt... what will you do then??? I bet it will be more difficult to deal with after than before... Honesty, truth and humility are very important to me... So, truth and honesty first.. to me. But through his own mouth!!!

@RitaZoye: Thanks for the feedback. Yea, i too believe that "honesty is the best policy" but knowing "everything" about their past is something i prefer not to know.
here everything includes mainly the Little things which may mean "nothing" at first.
But the Big things (which can haunt me later in life)- Sure i would like to know - from him of course.
well, I guess we are two different people - the jealous and the not jealous kind ;-)

hey... ka hla nalh tih hi nalh i lo ti ve thei e ka tia. :-) Mi lungleng chu an thi hma duh an ti sia.. den thei tops! :D

@Joseph L: khai3.. i soi 'denzer' em mai..hehe.. thanks for visiting.